Don’t hurt me, no more~~~
I just realized how behind the times I am. I don’t ever photoshop my pictures to post on blogs. I’m not very articulate with the ideas I’m trying to spit out. So I can understand when I leave people confused bwahahahahaha
My last ex was pretty fine. Probably one of the hottest girls I’ve ever dated. Selfishness seems to go hand in hand with looks. FOB from Korea.
The one before her was very young. 25 turned 26. Probably the youngest adult I’ve dated in my thirties. She was a PK (Pastor’s Kid) but did very unholy things with me. Indonesian Chinese. Very nice… squatting girl.
And right before her, probably the most successful girl I’ve dated. Her own real estate business, multiple properties, slamming body, and very nice. Mainland Chinese.
After reading my friend Connie’s blog, I know where she’s coming from. Many of Us guys are very ungrateful to the women in our lives. I don’t know what it is but I was the one to always tell my friends bro, you’re lucky to have her. For the past few years, my friends have been saying it to me.
I used to blame the women completely but now I see it’s hard to date a guy like me. I’m far from perfect. I have issues of my own. Nowhere near perfection.
An awesome son? Okay at best
Father? Of the year! (Then I saw Chloe Kim’s dad on the Olympics) thanks, dick.
Personality? Fat people are jolly.
All in all, I could’ve been better. Better to all the women involved with me. No excuses. I love games and martial arts. I also love women. A lot.
I’m faithful as fuck when with a woman. I also have unrealistic expectations.
Sexually, only the mainland Chinese kept up. Somewhat. I recall one of our hotel ventures, the next doors (both of them) called a complaint because we were keeping them up all night. Literally. I was unhappy because she really didn’t like being on top. Made me wonder why someone this hot could be so lazy in bed.
The youngest one, she was very sheltered so she wanted to do crazy things with me. She got mad because we wouldn’t fuck in my parking lot. First off, it’s not covered. Second, I’m at an age where I know as fun as that might sound, it’s not worth the sexual charges that come with the police being called. Second, she couldn’t have sex at her place so the only choice left was my pad or hotels, but she didn’t like either. She’d rather have sex in public places like parks and parking lots. Lord help her.
And finally the fob, lazy in bed, super lazy. A dead fish would give me more action than she did. But also, she felt it was a man’s duty to pay for everything.
It seems my issues mostly revolve around physical aspects of the relationship. Am I a great listener? I don’t know.
Physically? I make sure the woman gets hers before I get mine.
Emotionally? Does it tie in with physical needs? I think if she’s fed and happy sexually, it should make her emotionally happy? Maybe impress her with carrying more groceries at once so we can have less trips? Win more dolls at carnivals? Show her I can drink two bottles of soju? Give her massages without expecting hanky Panky? Do small chores around the house without being asked to? Short local trips with just her and me? Remember the small things she likes?
Even if I did all of the above and more, I’d feel like she’s not emotionally happy. I try to see what some of my “happy” friends do that I’m not doing. Well, they’re well off so global trips can’t be compared. They also spend a lot of money at casinos.
I don’t know.
What advice do you ladies have for me?
Bros? Chime in, please?
Don’t hurt me lol